Changing your vocabulary and the habitual words you choose to use on a daily basis will, and can, change your world. The way we describe every moment of every day with our internal dialogue and with people we are talking to shapes our experience. 

Was that cat video on YouTube hilarious or was it just silly? Was that movie you watched horrifying or just scary? Is your partner irritating you or driving you bananas? Did you have a phenomenal vacation with your significant other or just a good one? 

Think about swearing and how much we use swearing as "intensifiers" in our language.  For many of my clients swearing is like rocket-fuel. It's one of the reasons I encourage them to be very careful when/if they do swear because it can take them from zero to 60 in just a few seconds.  

Now think for a moment how positive your language patterns are. Would people describe your language as happy-go-lucky with your glass half-full, serious and straight to the point or maybe negative wit...