“I am so tired of having these same arguments over and over. Why won’t you come to counseling with me?”
Sound familiar? You and your partner cannot agree on some very important issues and it is causing a significant strain in your marriage. Your partner refuses to go with you to receive help.
Some thoughts about how to resolve issues that arise in many marriages. Below are some common arguments that a reluctant spouse offers up as a way to avoid counseling. Following are remarks that a person either in counseling or unwilling to participate in counseling might respond with. Remember how important it is to be determined to be even, gentle, kind and non-accusatory as you meet together.
It is important when you discuss these types of questions that it is not during or just after an argument. You need to find a time when you are both rested and you won’t be interrupted.
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